This week’s column comes from the website (http://mychildrenschildren.com/a-new-reality-i-hope-not/) of Dr. Robert Saul, an author of three books and a man with a simple, but profound message.

His writing provides a roadmap to a civilized world, one that we can confidently leave to our children and then to their children. One that is not paved by greed or hate and is not driven by fear or loathing. It is a road called “Common Sense” and wanders through the countryside we call America and on the highways that get us from “here to there.”

Dr. Saul hits the tall points; it’s the nuances that are interesting. It is the streets and avenues that will lead into a future which, hopefully, takes us back to a nation where neighbors help each other, and the color of our skin, our sexual orientation, or the gender we identify with, are accepted, as are differences of opinion. A country where all are treated fairly and viewpoints are respected and discussed, not vilified.

One can hope what we see now in our country is an aberration, not a new norm; hope is all we have.

Here is Dr. Robert Saul's blog from June 2, 2018.

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I am concerned about the state of public discourse in the America. We don’t listen to each other, we shout past or over each other, we engage in name-calling and we apply labels without thinking. Is this a new reality? I hope not.

But then I ask myself the question — what can I do? As a physician, I must be non-judgmental, apolitical and empathetic as I engage with children and families. As a book author, I want to spread my messages (promoting citizenship, advocating for children, improving communities) far and wide without offending any people. Yet I feel complicit in the decline of public discourse unless I engage. I can engage as a citizen (seeking to help others), as a truth-seeker (on a journey of life-long learning and continuous improvement) and as an elder (having acquired an array of life-long experiences and seeking to use those in a positive fashion). Not being engaged is really not an option.

So let me offer some ideas going forward:

  • Truth Matters – Truth is an accumulation of facts. There is no such thing as “alternative facts” as has been famously mentioned recently. Unfortunately, an incomplete group of facts can be twisted into untruths. We must always be truth-seekers and willing to listen to all of the facts, not just the convenient ones.
  • Trust Matters – Trust is earned. Trust is earned when people use their knowledge, their humanity and their empathy to engage with other citizens. As a physician, trust is vital to my patients and families. If I don’t use all of my professional knowledge, acknowledge my humanity and employ all of my empathy, I will not be trusted. Saying “trust me” is not sufficient. If one’s cumulative behaviors are not trustworthy, it is very hard to trust someone. They must earn our trust and that is an ongoing process.
  • Science Matters – Science is an incredibly important component in today’s society. So many policy decisions (how to protect the environment and our planet, how to improve health, how to protect the public from life-threatening infection and many more) should be based on sound science. An incomplete application of science (just like an incomplete group of facts) is potentially dangerous and does not serve the public good, only those with a selfish agenda. We cannot allow science to be perverted.
  • Civility Matters – Civility is key to social interactions. Without civility, social discourse completely deteriorates. Name-calling serves no useful purpose and only serves to dehumanize and belittle our fellow citizens. Our ability to maintain civility needs constant attention. Treating each other as we want others to treat us is so important. How did we lose track of this basic principle of a civil society?
  • Diversity Matters – Diversity in America is a vital part of our society, now and at our founding. We must embrace our diversity. It is what makes us strong. And remember diversity means more than just ethnicity. It includes age, gender, sexual orientation and so much more.
  • Faith Matters – Faith provides a moral compass. We are a nation of many faiths. When observed with integrity, faith allows us to love others and practice forgiveness in a manner that serves all.

I am sure that others can add to this list, and I hope that they will. I submit these ideas as a concerned citizen who wants social discourse to be raised to a higher level. I refuse to accept the current situation as a new reality. I am compelled to speak out. I know that we can do better, and I vow to be a part of that process.

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“We are social creatures to the inmost centre of our being. The notion that one can begin anything at all from scratch, free from the past, or unindebted to others, could not conceivably be more wrong.” — Karl Popper, philosopher, professor (1902-1994)