Do You Think Your Girlfriend May Be Cheating on You?

By Chaudhary Khalid Rafiq | Aug 13, 2018


Many men are lucky enough to be in a totally secure and loving relationship with their partners. However, there are also those that have suspicions and do not entirely trust their girlfriends for one reason or another. The reasons behind this lack of trust can range from having been cheated on in the past and feeling insecure through to the partner having cheated previously or simply acting out of sorts. In some cases, the suspicions are totally unfounded but in other cases men have turned out to be right when suspecting their girlfriends of infidelity. The worst thing is not knowing one way or another, which is why most men are keen to find out the truth.


If you feel your girlfriend may be cheating, it is only natural that you want to find out conclusively. However, simply asking her the question will most likely simply end in denial no matter what the truth is. This is why you should first check for signs she may be cheating before you actually make any accusations or speak to her about it. At least then, you will have something to go on rather than simply making blind accusations based on suspicion.


Some of the ways to check for signs of cheating

There are various ways in which you can check for signs of cheating. For instance, you may find that your girlfriend has started receiving more calls than she usually does. If you question her about who is calling she may claim that it is a friend or family member. However, if you do not believe her about this you can actually use a reverse phone lookup service online to determine the number and who was calling. This works even if the number is a cell phone or private one, which means you can find out instantly if your partner was lying about who was calling her.

Another thing that many cheating partners do is to use social media to instant message the person they are seeing or flirting with. However, one mistake that many make is to not log out of the site once they have finished, which means that you could actually gain access on the same device. If you are able to do this and check the private messages, this could be a clear indicator of whether your partner is cheating or even trying to cheat on you. In addition, look out for other social media signs that she may be cheating such as spending a lot more time on these sites but not sharing what she is doing. She may also keep her phone out of your sight when using it or quickly close the laptop if you walk in while she is on social media.


These are just some of the signs that your partner may display if she is cheating on you. Of course, it is important to be certain before you start making any accusations. Looking out for little signs like this can be a big help.

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